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My Husband Threw Stones At My Mother, Bit Me When We Fought — Wife
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Grade A Customary Court, sitting at Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, has adjourned for judgment a divorce suit brought before it by a woman, Nura, against her husband, Malik, whom she accused of irresponsibility, neglect, disrespect to her family and battery.
Nura said that Malik neglected her welfare and that of their children and refused to be committed to their children’s education.
Nura also stated that she and her mother have always been responsible for their children’s feeding while she worked hard to pay their school fees.
The plaintiff explained that the defendant gave her only N5, 000 when one of their children broke his legs and was admitted to the hospital for months.
She further stated that she always found her husband repulsive after he had smoked cigarette and drank alcohol, which made her deny him sex. She said he would beat her blue black for denying him sex.
According to Nura, Malik treated her family with disdain.
She stated that her husband once threw stones at her mother, while he beat one of her siblings to a pulp.
Nura again said that she had scarce all over her body because Malik never ceased to bite her any time they fought.
The plaintiff told the court that she was fed up with her marriage and therefore prayed for its dissolution.
She also entreated the court for their children’s custody, while her husband was made to be responsible for their welfare.
Nura further requested for order, restraining Malik from harassing, threatening, and interfering with her private life.
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Malik denied all that Nura said against him.
He also refused that their marriage be dissolved and his wife granted their children’s custody.
Malik stated that he was up and doing in their home.
According to him, he paid their children’s fees as when due and same with their rent.
He explained that the only time he derailed in the agreement of paying the rent was when his father was sick and was admitted to the hospital.
According to him, he spent all his resources attending to his father, who unfortunately died.
The defendant again said that he beat his wife because she had a caustic tongue, adding that she was in the habit of pulling his manhood any time they fought.
The plaintiff in her testimony said, “I do not feel the presence of my husband in our home.
“I work hard to feed and clothe our children because my husband neglected them.
“I also took up the challenge of paying their school fees since he showed no interest in their education.
“He gave me only N5, 000 when our son broke his legs and was admitted to the hospital for months.
“All that my husband knows to do is to smoke and drink, and then demand for sex which I always deny him.
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“I always refuse that he has sex with me because I cannot tolerate the smell of tobacco and alcohol.
“He beats me every time I refused him sex.
“I was once admitted to the hospital for three days as a result of his severe beatings.
“He also bites me any time we fight. The scars all over my body confirm this.
“We were sent packing by our landlord after he failed to pay the rent.
“Since he was out of job, we both decided that I moved to my parents’ house with our children while he moved to his.
“My mother took up the sole responsibility of feeding our children.
“My husband, rather than show gratitude to my family, took to humiliating them.
“He abused my mother during a misunderstanding and further went to throw stones at her.
“He also beat my sibling to a pulp.
“He had stopped greeting my mother since I dragged him to court.
“His family members also refused to sympathise with us when my mother lost her sister in a tragic manner.
“He now travels a lot due to the nature of his job and has strings of lovers.
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“I no longer trust him.
“I am also no longer interested in our marriage.
“I pray this honourable court to dissolve our union and grant me custody of our children.
“I further plead that the court mandates him to be responsible for our children’s upkeep giving feeding, education and health care a priority.
“I further request an order restricting him from harassing, threatening, and interfering with my private life.”
Malik responded, “I am not willing to divorce my wife.
“I entreat this honourable court to help settle our differences.
“All that my wife said was yo win the court’s sympathy.
“I am a responsible father and committed to our children’s welfare.
“I feed them and pay their fees as at when due.
“The only time I defaulted was when my father was sick and dying in the hospital.
“His treatment gulped all my resources.
“We were thrown out of our apartment because I could not pay the rent which led to our moving to our parents’ houses.
“Her mother never ceased to ridicule me despite being aware that I was out of job.
“She once demanded to have the N80, 000 she claimed to have spent feeding our children.
“She also refused me access to the children.
“I once took them to my parent’s house where I was staying and made them spend the night with me.
“My mother-in-law instigated my wife against me.
“My wife has a caustic tongue.
“She came to my family house to abuse and fight me, thus humiliating me.
“My wife is in the habit of pulling my manhood whenever we fight, which made me bite her.
“We are both Muslim, but she suddenly abandoned her faith and started going to church.
“She is now the information officer of her church because she is always informing people of their programmes in the church and inviting them.
“My wife has kept frustrating every attempt made to reconcile us.
“I do not agree that she has custody of our children if she is still insisting on divorce.”
The court president, Mrs S.M Akintayo, after she had heard both parties adjourned the case until Novemver 18, for judgment.
(TRIBUNE)
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Lagos Designer, Deb’rah Porsche Killed By Ex
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September 6, 2025By
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An interior designer, identified as Deborah Moses, popularly known as Deb’rah Porsche, has been allegedly murdered in Lagos by her ex-boyfriend, months after she ended their relationship.
The incident, which occurred late Wednesday night, has sparked outrage among family members, neighbors, and rights activists, who are demanding justice for the slain young woman.
According to reports, the suspect, identified simply as Lintex, a native of Otukpo in Benue State, allegedly disguised as a dispatch rider to gain access to the estate where Deborah lived.
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When security operatives became suspicious, he reportedly scaled the fence into the compound and proceeded to her apartment.
It was learned that the suspect first attempted to cause an explosion by cutting the cooking gas pipe outside the house. When that plan failed, he allegedly broke into Deborah’s residence and stabbed her multiple times until she died. A relative of the victim said Deborah ended the relationship over a year ago but had been repeatedly threatened by the suspect.
“They have broken up for more than a year now, but this guy refused to move on. He keeps making statements like, ‘If I don’t have you, nobody will. If I don’t marry you, blood will flow,’” the relative said. She added that Deborah, who had just completed her National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) programme and was gradually building her career, had been avoiding strange calls and unwanted advances from the suspect before the tragedy.
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“She was only trying to find her feet when this tragedy struck,” the grieving sister said.
Neighbors restrained the suspect after the attack before handing him over to the police. He is currently in custody, while activists and family members have called for a thorough investigation, warning that the case must not be swept under the carpet.
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How Man Killed Younger Brother, Hid Body In Drum — Police
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September 6, 2025By
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A man, Eze Elechi Amadi has explained why he killed his 18-year-old younger brother, Otu Ifeanyi, in Kajola, in Odigbo council area of Ondo state.
Amadi who was paraded by the police alongside 99 other suspected criminals in Akure, the state capital, weekend, was arrested while trying to dispose the body of his deceased brother
Police commissioner, Adebowale Lawal, said that “on 26th August, 2025 at about 3pm, one Oluwafemi Oladipupo of Paragon Street, Kajola, reported at Kajola Divisional Headquarters that he observed a blue plastic drum in front of his residence, tied at the mouth with a black rope.
“Upon inspection, the lifeless body of one Otu Ifeanyi, aged 18 years, who was later identified as the younger brother of the suspect, was discovered inside the drum. The drum was being transported on a motorcycle by one Eze Elechi Amadi ‘m’. While attempting to convey the drum to an unknown location for disposal, it fell off the motorcycle.
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Lawal said that “the suspect was immediately apprehended. During interrogation, he confessed to having killed his younger brother over a financial dispute, alleging that the deceased had unlawfully transferred ¦ 20,000.00 from his Ecobank account.
“The corpse has been deposited at the mortuary while further investigation is ongoing. The suspect will be charged to court upon the conclusion of the investigation”.
Speaking on the suspected criminals arrested across the 18 council area of the state, the police commissioner, said they were allegedly involved in crimes such as murder, kidnapping, armed robbery, cultism, unlawful possession of substances suspected to be hard drugs, and theft, among others.
Lawal noted that the arrests were made possible through the efforts of the men of the command and the cooperation of the residents of the state, who supplied the command with the right information.
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According to him “In the past weeks, our command has recorded remarkable breakthroughs in crime prevention, detection, and prosecution—achievements that reflect not only the gallant efforts of our officers and men, but also the invaluable cooperation of the good people of Ondo State.
“We have arrested a total number of 100 suspects who were involved in crimes such as murder, kidnapping, armed robbery, cultism, unlawful possession of substances suspected to be hard drugs, fraud/obtaining under false pretense, theft/stealing and receiving stolen property, vandalization, vehicle-related crimes, arms supplier/illegal possession of ammunition, and other robbery-linked suspects.
“We have also recovered some items from the suspects including locally made guns, ammunition, 30 rounds of AA cartridges, unregistered/forged vehicle documents, stolen vehicles, motorcycles, impounded/contravened vehicles, fake/unauthorised number plates (including government and spy), assorted stolen items (mobile phones, pressing irons, SIM cards, mattresses, jewelries, among others.”
The police commissioner said that “these achievements underscore the commitment of the Ondo State Police Command to protecting lives and property across the State.
He added that, “the successes recorded were made possible by the strategic direction of the Inspector-General of Police, IGP Kayode Adeolu Egbetokun, whose visionary leadership continues to inspire professionalism within the Force.”
(VANGUARD)
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Why We Shun Pedestrian Bridges Despite Risks, Despite Punitive Measures — Lagosians
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September 6, 2025By
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…‘We’ve prosecuted over 4,000 offenders since January 2024 —LAGESC
Mojeed (other name withheld) was in a hurry to catch an early morning BRT bus that fateful Monday. He lives at Iyana Ipaja on the Lagos Mainland and works on Adeola Odeku Street, Victoria Island. Already running late, he decided to circumvent the law to save time. He knew the regulation was clear—pedestrians must use the pedestrian bridge—but like many Lagosians, he only complied when enforcement officers were in sight.
Nothing suggested that trouble was lurking. He had just crossed the busy highway and was heading towards the bus station when operatives of the Lagos State Environmental Sanitation Corps (LAGESC) accosted him.
Asked why he ignored the pedestrian bridge, Mojeed gave an incoherent excuse. Within minutes, he was bundled into a waiting Black Maria alongside other offenders. He was held for over three hours before being released, his plan to get to work on time completely defeated.
“It was such a regrettable incident for me,” he admitted.
Unfortunately, Mojeed’s experience is far from unique. Despite the Lagos State government’s huge investment in pedestrian bridges across the state and the introduction of punitive measures to enforce compliance, many residents still risk their lives daily by running across expressways instead of using the bridges.
A Saturday Tribune investigation revealed that, like Mojeed, several pedestrians prefer the dangerous option of crossing highways. But unlike him, many Lagosians who spoke to Saturday Tribune defended their choices, citing insecurity, poor sanitation, the strenuous climb and time-wasting as reasons for avoiding pedestrian bridges.
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Security concerns on pedestrian bridges
Agnes, a resident of Iyana Ipaja who works with an advertising agency in Ikeja GRA, told Saturday Tribune that she often feels unsafe using pedestrian bridges, particularly at night.
“When the state government was building the pedestrian bridge at PWD along the Lagos–Abeokuta Expressway, we were happy. We thought it would reduce accidents and traffic chaos. But now, the bridge is often deserted except for self-appointed sweepers and area boys hanging around. I get scared, and sometimes I would rather cross the expressway and face the consequences,” she said.
Anthony Imaseun, a 27-year-old graduate of the University of Benin who works with a construction firm on Victoria Island, shared a similar fear. For him, the menace of hoodlums loitering around Sandfill pedestrian bridge is a major deterrent.
“They smoke weed openly in broad daylight. Nobody checks them. How can we be sure anyone will come to your aid if you are attacked on that bridge?” he asked.
Anthony, however, believes the situation can be salvaged. “Government should install security cameras and provide visible security presence. That assurance alone will make more people use the bridges,” he suggested.
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Sanitation and accessibility issues
For Evelyn Ilo, a Jakande Estate resident who works in Apapa, dirt and encroachment discourage her from using pedestrian bridges.
“Some of the bridges have been turned into public toilets or mini-markets by traders. The filth is unbearable and you don’t feel safe walking there. I prefer to cross the expressway, even though I know it’s risky,” she said.
Evelyn advised the government to improve cleanliness, remove hawkers, provide lighting and install ramps or escalators to make bridges accessible to the elderly, children and the physically challenged.
Christopher Chukwuka also lamented the dilapidated state of many pedestrian bridges. “At night, they are dangerous. Hoodlums block your way from both ends, leaving no escape. Until government fixes the bridges and provides security, I’d rather cross the road,” he declared.
Taiwo, a resident of Mowe who works in Lagos, echoed similar concerns. “The pedestrian bridge in Mowe is dark and unsafe at night. The climb is also stressful, especially for the elderly and disabled. Yet, the risk of crossing the expressway is enormous because many lives have been lost to speeding vehicles. Government must light up these bridges and build more along the Lagos–Ibadan Expressway,” he advised.
Mixed views: Safety vs. inconvenience
Not all Lagosians avoid the bridges. Olamide, a journalist, said he prefers using them.
“The expressways are too dangerous. I have seen too many near-accidents to take that risk. But the bridges themselves are not always pleasant; they are dirty, poorly lit and sometimes filled with miscreants. Government must maintain them better and make them user-friendly. If that happens, more people will abandon the risky habit of dashing across the road,” he said.
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Government’s enforcement drive
Despite these concerns, the Lagos State government insists that enforcement remains non-negotiable.
Recently, the Commissioner for the Environment and Water Resources, Tokunbo Wahab, said the government would continue to deploy enforcement strategies to ensure compliance.
Confirming this, Director of Public Affairs, Lagos State Environmental Sanitation Corps (LAGESC), Lukman Ajayi, told Saturday Tribune that enforcement is ongoing.
“On Friday, we arrested 18 offenders at 7&8 Bus Stop, Onipanu, and Fadeyi for failing to use pedestrian bridges. Since January 2024, no fewer than 4,000 offenders have been arrested and prosecuted. The exercise will continue until residents comply fully,” Ajayi stated.
For now, however, the gulf remains wide between government’s insistence on compliance and residents’ reluctance to climb the bridges provided for their safety. Until issues of security, sanitation, and accessibility are addressed, many Lagosians may continue to risk their lives crossing highways, despite the danger, despite the law.
(TRIBUNE)
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