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My Husband Travelled For 2 Yrs To Work, Returned With Only Plantain, Yam, Woman Tells Court

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...I’m ready to take her back, despite carrying another man’s pregnancy — Husband

A woman, Ayinke, has sought the dissolution of her 10-year-old wedlock to her husband, Adele, at Grade A Customary Court, Court 2, sitting at Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, giving lack of care and love, and irresponsibility as the reasons for her action.

Ayinke explained that even though her husband always claimed to be the head of the home, he never carried out the duties attached to being the head of the home.

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Ayinke stated that she started to shoulder the responsibility of their home from the outset of her marriage.

According to the plaintiff, she got fed up with the whole thing and walked out of her wedlock after the defendant travelled for two years to work, but to her disappointment, he returned with only plantains and yams.

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Ayinke claimed that she was no longer interested in her union with her husband and thus requested that it be dissolved.

She also sought an order stopping her husband from threatening and interfering in her affairs.

The plaintiff further entreated the court for their children’s custody.

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Adele denied all the claims brought against him.

He also refused that their marriage be dissolved.

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The defendant stated that it was true that they sometimes had differences in their marriage like any other couple, but that they always ironed them out without a third party mediating.

Adele added that Ayinke deserted her without a quarrel.

The defendant stated that he was ready to take the plaintiff back despite being impregnated by another man.

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He, however, pleaded that the court grant him custody of their children if his wife still insisted on divorce.

Ayinke, in her testimony, said, “Getting married to my husband was the greatest mistake I ever made.

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“We met in 2013 and got married in 2015

“We held a wedding ceremony, and he paid my bride price.

“My husband established the fact that he was the head of the home the moment I moved in with him, but he never lived up to it.

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“I started shouldering the responsibility of our home from the outset of our marriage.

“My husband practically handed the bulk of his duties in the home to me.

“I bore the task of feeding and clothing our family.

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“I also paid the rent, enrolled our children in school and paid their fees as and when due.

“My husband always expected to find our kitchen warm and the table well laid without giving me a dime for food.

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“I bought all the appliances in our home in order to make our lives comfortable even though my husband saw no need for them.

“I worked like a jackal to make ends meet while all my husband did was to live on my sweat.

“He was indifferent to our children’s education and never contributed towards it.

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“I tried my best to ensure our children were not thrown out of school.

“I paid their fees as and when due and also bought their books.

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“All my husband did was to complain of paucity of fund.

“We always quarrelled any time I challenged him to be up to his responsibilities in the home, and he would come up with flimsy excuses.

“He eventually travelled for two years to work. I was expecting a drastic change in our lifestyle by the time he returned.

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“My husband to my utmost disappointment came back with only plantains and yams.

“I got fed up with living an impoverished lifestyle and walked out of our marriage.

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“My lord, I plead that this honourable court, dissolve our union and grant me custody of our children.

“I further appeal for an order restraining my husband from threatening and meddling in my affairs.”

Adele, in his response, said: “My lord, although all that my wife said is not true, I still do not agree to divorce.

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“I am a responsible man and was greatly committed to her and our children.

“It is true that we sometimes had differences between us like any other couple, but we always made up.

“We never invited a third party to mediate in our differences.

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“My wife shocked me when she moved out of our home. She deserted me even though we did not fight.

“My lord, I am willing to take her back even though she is carrying another man’s pregnancy.

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If, on the other hand, she still insists on divorce, I then entreat this honourable court to grant me custody of our children.”

The president of the court, Mrs. O.E. Owoseni, after she had heard both parties stated that both held a valid and subsisting marriage since bride price was paid.

She added that it was proper to give the plaintiff the relief sought since she was no longer interested in her marriage.

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Owoseni therefore declared their union dissolved.

According to her, their children are still in their tender age and thus need the attention and care of their mother.

Owoseni therefore granted the plaintiff custody of their children while she mandated the defendant to be responsible for their upkeep.
(TRIBUNE)

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Police Arrest ‘Obi Of Lagos’, Foil Installation

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The Lagos State Police Command has arrested a 65-year-old man, Chibuike Azubike, for allegedly parading himself as the “Obi of Lagos.”

He was apprehended alongside three alleged accomplices while attempting to stage an unlawful unveiling ceremony.

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The arrest comes against the backdrop of growing ethnic tension, particularly among youths on various social media platforms, who exchanged banters over Azubike’s planned installation.

Azubike, said to be an indigene of the Obodoukwu Ancient Kingdom in the Ideato North Local Government Area of Imo State, was arrested with Chief Chibuzor Ani (57), Chief Martins Nwaodika (65), and Ikechukwu Franklin Nnadi (41).

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The four are currently being held at the command headquarters in Ikeja.

According to the police in a statement shared on X.com on Wednesday, the group had planned to unveil a prototype of a purported N1.5bn “Palace of Obi of Lagos State” on Saturday, September 13, 2025, at the Apple Hall in Amuwo Odofin.

The command noted that the venue was swiftly sealed off by security operatives to prevent public disturbance and protect unsuspecting citizens from being deceived.

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The Commissioner of Police, Olohundare Jimoh, said tactical teams, including the Eko Strike Force, were deployed to the location to maintain law and order.

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He added that investigations were ongoing and that the suspects would be charged in court once concluded.

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Jimoh further warned residents to be vigilant against impostors exploiting cultural and traditional institutions, stressing that such acts are illegal and capable of disturbing public peace.

This is not the first time that the police would make such arrest.

Notably, on April 1, 2023, Frederick Nwajagu, the Eze Ndigbo of Ajao Estate, was similarly arrested for unlawfully parading himself as a titled chief in Lagos.

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Final-year Student Arrested For Abandoning Newborn In Bush

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The Nasarawa State Police Command has arrested a woman for allegedly abandoning her newborn baby in a bush in Akwanga Local Government Area of the state.

The baby, wrapped in a piece of cloth, was discovered near a primary school on AA Koto Street in Akwanga on Wednesday. Residents who found the infant alive quickly alerted the police.

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Confirming the arrest to newsmen in Lafia on Thursday, the Police Public Relations Officer, SP Ramhan Nansel, said the Commissioner of Police had ordered the case transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Department for thorough investigation and prosecution.

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He said, “The mother of the baby has been identified and arrested. The Commissioner of Police has ordered the transfer of the case to the State Criminal Investigation Department, Lafia, for thorough investigation and prosecution.”

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It was gathered that the suspect is a final-year NCE student of the College of Education, Akwanga.

The incident has sparked outrage among residents, many of whom expressed shock and anger over the abandonment.

Similar cases have been recorded in other states.

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In July, a farmer in Kamba town, Dandi Local Government Area of Kebbi State, rescued a newborn baby girl who had been buried alive on his farmland.

The farmer, Kabiru Kamba, said he noticed an unusual ridge on his farm and invited motorcyclists to help dig. They discovered the baby wrapped in a cloth, crying and still alive.

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Kamba informed security operatives, and the child was later placed in his custody by the Dandi Local Government Council.

Out of compassion, he and his wife, who had recently given birth, took in the baby and planned her naming ceremony.

These recurring incidents have continued to raise concerns about the rising cases of child abandonment across Nigeria.

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Special Squad Uncovers Kidnappers’ Armoury, Camps In Edo Forest

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The Edo State Special Security Squad said it uncovered an armoury and camps in the forest used by kidnappers to carry out their devilish activities.

The squad made this known in a statement issued by the Chief Press Secretary to Governor Monday Okpebholo, Fred Itua, and made available to newsmen on Thursday in Benin.

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Itua in the statement said the discovery was made during the bush combing exercise carried out by the outfit from Tuesday to Thursday.

According to Itua, the coordinated exercise was carried out under the direct supervision of the governor’s Chief Security Officer and Principal Security Officer.

He noted that the operation covered Ovia North-East, Esan North-East, Esan West, and Esan South-East Local Government Areas of the state.

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Itua noted that particular attention was paid to the Benin–Akure Road corridor, where passengers of the New Edo Line were recently kidnapped.

He added, “During the bush combing, operatives recovered two locally made double-barrel guns and one live cartridge in adjoining communities, including Osa-Somba and Idunwingie in Ovia North-East. Officials noted that the discoveries point to the entrenched use of local armoury by kidnappers operating in the region.”

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Head of the ESSC, Idemudia Noah, in the statement said the team was deploying drones, military personnel, and advanced surveillance in its relentless pursuit of kidnappers.

“We received distress calls from Ugboha people reporting kidnapping incidents, and we responded with massive combing of the forests. This administration is determined to ensure Edo is too unsafe for criminals. The message is clear: criminals must leave the state or face decisive action,” Noah declared.

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A member of the squad, Eribo Emwanta, disclosed that in Ugboha forest, operatives discovered abandoned camps suspected to have been used as kidnapping hideouts.

He said that the exercise would remain continuous, with Governor Okpebholo personally monitoring the team’s activities.

Recall that Last Friday, gunmen suspected to be kidnappers killed eight personnel of the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps attached to the BUA Cement Factory located in Okpella, Etsako East Local Government Area of the state.

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An expatriate, a Chinese national, was also kidnapped while four others were rescued from their abductors. Four people were also injured and are currently receiving treatment at an undisclosed hospital.

Also, passengers in an Edo Line bus and a Toyota Corolla car were abducted along Benin-Auchi Road on the same day, but 16 of them were later rescued by the police.

 

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