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My Wife Chased Me With Knife, Insisted I Must Build Her A House — Husband

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He made me vacate my rented apartment, moved in with him, now beats, humiliates me —Wife

A man, Lamidi, has told Grade A Customary Court, Court 2, sitting at Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, that he could no longer stomach his wife’s, Nofisat’s atrocities and as such prayed that their wedlock be dissolved.

Lamidi alleged that Nofisat cared less about his well-being, was jealous, disrespectful, and violent, adding that he no longer loved her.

Lamidi stated that Nofisat became defiant and uncontrollable after she moved in with him.

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According to him, she insisted that he must build her a house and therefore went violent.

Lamidi said that Nofisat once chased him with a knife during a misunderstanding, threatening to kill him, their only child, and then herself.

The plaintiff explained that the defendant was always filled with fury, adding that she became destructive when in this state.

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Lamidi gave an instance of when Nofisat soaked one of her co wives’ mattress with water during a fight.

The plaintiff prayed the court to end their relationship and grant him custody of their child, whose welfare the defendant had constantly neglected.

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He further sought an order, restraining her from harassing, threatening, and interfering with his private life.

Nofisat acceded to divorce.

The defendant denied all the claims brought against her except one, that she fought with her co wives all the time.

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According to her, her husband always took sides with his other wives and would humiliate her in their presence any time she had a misunderstanding or fought with them.

Lamidi testified, “My wife and I got married in 2020.

“We had Nikkah, but I did not pay her bride price.”

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Lamidi testified, “My wife and I got married in 2020.

“We had Nikkah, but I did not pay her bride price.

“My wife was easygoing and respectful before we got married, but she suddenly changed after she moved in with me.

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Nofisat from the outset of our relationship demanded that I built her a house.

“She became troublesome and refused that I had rest of mind.

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“Nofisat cares less about my welfare.

“She leaves home on Monday, according to her, to go and work and returns on Friday.

“I showed my displeasure at her neglect of me and provided her a shop to display and sell her goods.

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“My wife, not satisfied with my display of affection towards her, still sought every opportunity to fight me.

“Nofisat is rude and has no respect for me.

“She speaks to me harshly, disregarding my age.

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“She is also rebellious and has consistently rejected my authority and did as she pleased.

“My wife and I had a heated argument, and to my chagrin, she went straight for a knife.

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Nofisat looking wild like someone who was demonic possessed went after me with the knife.

“I would have been a dead man by now but for the timely intervention of people around.

“My wife swore she would stab me and our only child to death and then kill her.

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“Nofisat is an evil wind that blows no-one any good.

“She gets angry easily and will destroy my property.

“The most recent been that of when she flew into a rage while fighting with one of his co wives.

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“She went for a bucket of water and emptied it on her mattress, thus soaking it.

“My lord, my wife has caused me enough stress and pain.

“I believe it is best that we go our different ways.

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“I, therefore, beseech this honourable court to dissolve our union and grant me custody of our only child whom she has failed to be a good and responsible mother to.

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I also request an order restricting her from harassing, threatening, and interfering with my private life.”

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Nofisat responded, “I am also no longer interested in our wedlock. I accede to divorce.

“My lord, all that my husband said except one is lies.

“It is true that his other wives and I fight.

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“I told him I preferred leaving in my rented apartment, but he insisted that I moved into his house.

“I moved in, and hell was let loose.

“My husband and my co wives were always on my neck, which was the reason we always fought.

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My husband, instead of being plain and straight while mediating in our differences, would take side with his other wives and throw blame at me.

“He would humiliate me in their presence beating me.

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“He would also lock my shop and refuse that I sell my wares.

“My lord, I refuse that my husband has custody of our child.

“I am alive, hale and hearty. The responsibility to take care of our child is mine.

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“I plead that the court grants me custody of our child and make my husband responsible for her upkeep giving feeding, education and health care a priority.”

The court president, Mrs O.E Owoseni, after she had heard both parties, stated that since both had acceded to divorce, the court had no option but to dissolve their union.

She granted the defendant custody of their child, being still in her tender age, and mandated the plaintiff to be responsible for her upkeep.

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Owoseni further restrained both parties from harassing, threatening, and interfering with each other’s private life.
(NIGERIAN TRIBUNE)

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My Wife Is Childless, Refuses To Pray, Fights Me All The Time, Man Tells Court

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Grade A Customary Court, sitting at Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, has adjourned until November 24, for further hearing on the divorce suit brought before it by a man, Anjorin, against his wife, Omolabake, whom he accused of irresponsibility, barreness, constant fight and disobedience.

Anjorin stated that their 8-year-old marriage had produced no child because his wife was barren. He also said that Omolabake was in the habit of flouting his orders.

The plaintiff added that the defendant was fond of going out without his consent while she always abandoned her duties in the home.

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The plaintiff further said that he regarded the defendant as a heathen since she refused to pray.

Anjorin, therefore, prayed for the dissolution of their wedlock.

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Omolabake denied all the allegations brought against her.

She conceded to divorce.

Anjorin, in his evidence, said, “I got married to my wife in 2017, but I did not pay her bride price. “Unfortunately, our 8-year-old union has not produced any child.

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“My wife has made our relationship non-interesting to me because of her atrocities.

“Omolabake has refused to be submissive to me. She plans to usurp my position as head of the home.

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My wife flouts my instructions at will and would dare that I did my worst.

“She abandoned her duty of keeping the home.

“My wife refused to do the house chores and always left our home unkempt.

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“I took up the responsibility of doing the house chores, but my wife remained ungrateful.

“Omolabake took to leaving home without my consent and would return whenever it pleased her.

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“The more I showed my displeasure at this, the worse she became.

“She fights me any time I complain of her misbehaviour.

“My wife is a heathen.

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She does not observe the prayer hours as it is expected of her as a Muslim.

“My lord, I am not happy in our marriage because Omolabake has refused that I have rest of mind.

“I pray that the court rule that we go our different ways.”

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The president of the court, Mrs S.M. Akintayo, adjourned the case.

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‘My Husband’s Neglect Of Me Led Me Into An Affair With Another Man’

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…She has contracted HIV —Husband

A woman, Mrs Tabitha Iliya, has dragged her husband, Iliya Yaran, to an Upper Customary Court sitting at Daura Road, Kaduna, Kaduna State, praying for divorce over lack of love.

Tabitha, a mother of six, told the court that her husband had failed in providing for the family, a situation that made her cheat on him in order to get fund to purchase their daughter’s drugs.

She told the court that she had stopped sleeping with her husband who usually returned home every three months due to the nature of his work since her intimacy with the other man.

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She explained that she had also suffered verbal and physical abuse from her husband, which resulted to her packing out of her matrimonial home for over a year now.

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Tabitha stated, “One day, my friend, Esther, asked me to accompany her to a bar, where she was going to meet someone, and I followed her.

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“While sitting and gisting, my husband and his friend came to the bar and he started calling me a prostitute and even called one of our sons on phone to come and see what I was doing.”

She said that she left her husband’s house three days after the incident due to constant insults and his demand that she pack out of his house.

The plaintiff stated that she rented a room in another area, but that her husband kept threatening her and even tried to poison her through diabolical means.

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She, therefore, prayed the court to dissolve their marriage so that she can have peace of mind.

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The judge, Patience Musa, asked Yaran to cross-examine his wife, who then asked her if she had contracted HIV and she answered in the affirmative.

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When asked where she got it from, she said it was from God, adding that she no longer loved her husband.

The judge then adjourned the case.

However, shortly after the adjournment, the husband threatened his wife in court, saying she is still his wife and if he catches her with another man again, she will have herself to blame.

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The judge quickly intervened and said the court had recorded his threat, adding that if anything happens to the wife, he would be held responsible.

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My Husband Shows His Other Wives More Affection, Woman Tells Court

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A housewife, Rofiat AbdulRofiu, has begged an Area Court in Ilorin, Kwara State, to dissolve her marriage to her husband, Anafi AbdulLateef, on grounds that he shows affection to his three other wives more than her.

”My husband has neglected me and shows love to my three co-wives and his seven children.

”I am no longer interested in our marriage,” she said.

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Delivering judgment, the judge, Mr Toyin Aluko, said that Rofiat sent a release letter to the court, agreeing to the divorce application filed by his wife.

Aluko ordered Rofiat to observe one one-month Iddah (waiting) period before she can remarry.

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He also granted her custody of their two-year-old baby.

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According to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), the judge ordered Anafi to pay N20,000 monthly for the feeding of the child.

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He also ordered that the father should be given reasonable time to see his child and be informed of anything pertaining to the baby.

The court directed the court clerk to serve Anafi with a copy of the judgment.

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