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My Wife Says My Manhood Is Small, Beats Me — Husband

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…He watches blue films, masturbates — Wife

A-44-year-old man of Lusaka’s Maichola, Kabanana Compound, Zambia, has couriered his wife to court for repeatedly saying he has a small manhood and also using foul language on him in the presence of their children any time they quarrelled.

Cletus Sambondu told the Matero Local Court that his wife of four years was not only the boss in their home, but also a brute, who would beat him whenever they had a misunderstanding.

Sambondu married 35-year-old Anna Tembo in 2022 after paying about K4,000 as dowry.

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According to him, when he just married Anna, she was as peaceful as a dove and they enjoyed intimacy on regular basis.

However, things changed just within a year of their marriage, when Anna abruptly started denying him sex, saying that his manhood was small.

He complained that his wife would also turn violent whenever he requested for sex, claiming that he smells.

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“We married in 2022 and everything was going well.

“In early 2023, she started refusing to sleep with me.

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“She would beat and insult me in the presence of my stepchildren.

“Whenever I called people to help reconcile us, she would beat me after they left.

“There has never been peace at home. Her love has been on and off.

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“We involved our families, but nothing came out of it. She beats me a lot; at one point I even reported her to the police,” Cletus said.

He added that sometimes his stepchildren would also join their mother in physically abusing him whenever they had a fight.

“For my safety, I have decided to leave this marriage.

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“Her three children have stopped respecting me.

“At one point, she even accused me of being a thief in my own house,” he said.

Meanwhile, Anna told the court that she started beating her husband after she caught him playing with his manhood while watching blue movies on several occasions.

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She admitted to denying him conjugal rights after repeatedly finding him pleasuring himself.

“I started teaching him a lesson after I found him playing with himself while I was sleeping beside him.

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“Another time I found him doing it in the toilet, then in the kitchen. I would find sperm on the bed sheet even when we hadn’t met at night.

“One day, I found him using Vaseline and releasing on a towel,” she explained.

The first time I caught him, I slapped him.

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“He spends all his time on the phone. We never talk.

“When he enters the bedroom, all he does is watching blue movies. There is no time to discuss anything,” she said.

Anna further told the court that her husband was a drunkard who drank recklessly every day and would miss work for three to four months at a time.

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Despite Anna informing the magistrate, Harriet Mulenga, that she still wanted to continue with their marriage, the court granted the couple a divorce, stating that the wife had no respect for her husband.

After listening to an audio recording in which Anna was heard insulting Cletus, Mulenga ruled that the wife was the bigger problem.

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There is no respect in this marriage. No matter what, you cannot cooperate.

“We have heard of marriages where women beat men. If you respected him, he would not have resorted to masturbation.

“It was also wrong of you to slap your husband.

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“There is no way you can tell your husband that he has a small manhood and expect him to have confidence with you.

“That is why he plays with himself, he has lost confidence.

“Respect is cardinal in marriage. How many times will you get married?” asked Mulenga.

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The magistrate ordered Cletus to pay K500 monthly maintenance for the couple’s one-year-seven-month-old child.

She also ordered that household goods be shared equally and ruled that no compensation be paid to either party.

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Gunmen Kidnap Businessman In Ibadan

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Gunmen suspected to be kidnappers have abducted a 60-year-old man in Ibadan, the Oyo State capital.

The victim was kidnapped on Saturday while on his way to his residence.

The incident occurred at Jinarere, Alakia in Ibadan.

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Public Relations Officer of the State Police command, Olayinka Ayanlade, when contacted, confirmed the incident.

READ ALSO:Gunmen Abduct 60-year-old Trader In Oyo

Ayanlade in a statement made available to DAILY POST on Sunday, explained that efforts are ongoing to rescue the victim.

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Ayanlade said, “Preliminary information reveals that the victim, a 60-year-old male and building materials trader, was accosted while returning home along the Jinarere axis of Alakia Road by four masked armed men, who forcefully whisked him away in an unregistered ash-coloured Toyota Corolla vehicle”.

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Tragedy As Suspected Kidnappers Kill Young Entrepreneur In Edo

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A 30-year-old entrepreneur and CEO of Principle Takeout, Justice Abu Oshioke, has been killed by suspected kidnappers in Ekpoma, Esan West Local Government Area of Edo State.

He was reportedly attacked by the suspected kidnappers on Saturday while on his way to pick up an order made for his child’s dedication on Sunday morning.

Eyewitnesses said the attackers attempted to force him into a nearby bush in a kidnapping attempt. However, he reportedly resisted and tried to escape.

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In the course of the struggle, the assailants opened fire, shooting him multiple times.

Concerned residents quickly rushed him to a nearby medical facility, but he was confirmed dead on arrival.

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The deceased was said to have recently gotten married and welcomed a baby boy.

The tragic event has turned a joyous occasion into a moment of grief for the family.

READ ALSO:Edo NLC Divided Over May Day Celebration

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The shocking development has left the Ekpoma community in deep sorrow, with many residents expressing outrage over the growing insecurity in the area.

Edo State Police Command’s spokesperson, Eno Ikoedem confirmed the incident and said the Commissioner of Police, Monday Agbonika has ordered a “full-scale investigation and intensified manhunt for those responsible.” 

According to her, the Police, in collaboration with the military, local vigilantes, and hunters, are actively pursuing the perpetrators through coordinated operations.

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Grandfathers Arrested For Drug Trafficking

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Two grandfathers, aged 83 and 78, are among several suspects apprehended by the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA) in a fresh nationwide crackdown on illicit drug trafficking.

Pa John Ofiel, 83, was arrested on Tuesday, 28 April during a raid in the Aba region of Abia State.

The NDLEA said that operatives acting on credible intelligence recovered 700 grams of skunk, a potent strain of cannabis already packaged into retail sachets.

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The octogenarian, who claimed to be a professional shoemaker allegedly confessed to delving into the illicit trade.

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In Ekiti State on Thursday 30 April 78 year old Ogunjobi Samuel was detained at his residence in Ilupeju-Ekiti where officers seized 350 grams of cannabis from him, identifying him as a local peddler.

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Chairman and Chief Executive Officer of the NDLEA, (CCEO), Brig. Gen. Mohamed Marwa (Rtd), commended the various state commands for their drug supply reduction efforts.

He urged officers to maintain the current momentum, balancing enforcement with the agency’s War Against Drug Abuse (WADA) sensitisation activities.
The enforcement drive also led to the arrest of a notorious drug dealer in Oyo State Taofik Adeyemi, 49.

He was apprehended on Saturday, 2 May, at his residence in Ibadan after months of evading the authorities.

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He was caught alongside his salesman, Mustapha Oyerinde, with 3.085kg of cannabis and a getaway vehicle.

Across other states, the NDLEA recorded significant seizures including over 140,000 pills and capsules of Tramadol intercepted in separate operations targeting transit routes from Damaturu to Hadejia.

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A raid on Awolowo Market in Mushin area of Lagos state resulted in the recovery of 740kg of cannabis while in Kaduna, two suspects were caught on the Abuja-Jos highway with 290kg of compressed cannabis concealed in a Honda Ridgeline.

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A 65-year-old driver was intercepted at the Ile-Ife toll gate in Osun state conveying skunk and methamphetamine, leading to a follow up arrest of the consignment’s owner in Ilesha.

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In line with it’s mandate, the NDLEA continued its War Against Drug Abuse (WADA) advocacy, holding enlightenment lectures for students, Islamic schools, and commercial motorcyclists in Niger, Kano, Anambra, and Lagos states.

The NDLEA’s Director of Media and Advocacy, Femi Babafemi, noted that the agency remains committed to “cleansing the streets” of both notorious distributors and those who use age as a shield for criminal activity.

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