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My Wife Says My Manhood Is Small, Beats Me — Husband

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…He watches blue films, masturbates — Wife

A-44-year-old man of Lusaka’s Maichola, Kabanana Compound, Zambia, has couriered his wife to court for repeatedly saying he has a small manhood and also using foul language on him in the presence of their children any time they quarrelled.

Cletus Sambondu told the Matero Local Court that his wife of four years was not only the boss in their home, but also a brute, who would beat him whenever they had a misunderstanding.

Sambondu married 35-year-old Anna Tembo in 2022 after paying about K4,000 as dowry.

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According to him, when he just married Anna, she was as peaceful as a dove and they enjoyed intimacy on regular basis.

However, things changed just within a year of their marriage, when Anna abruptly started denying him sex, saying that his manhood was small.

He complained that his wife would also turn violent whenever he requested for sex, claiming that he smells.

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“We married in 2022 and everything was going well.

“In early 2023, she started refusing to sleep with me.

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“She would beat and insult me in the presence of my stepchildren.

“Whenever I called people to help reconcile us, she would beat me after they left.

“There has never been peace at home. Her love has been on and off.

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“We involved our families, but nothing came out of it. She beats me a lot; at one point I even reported her to the police,” Cletus said.

He added that sometimes his stepchildren would also join their mother in physically abusing him whenever they had a fight.

“For my safety, I have decided to leave this marriage.

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“Her three children have stopped respecting me.

“At one point, she even accused me of being a thief in my own house,” he said.

Meanwhile, Anna told the court that she started beating her husband after she caught him playing with his manhood while watching blue movies on several occasions.

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She admitted to denying him conjugal rights after repeatedly finding him pleasuring himself.

“I started teaching him a lesson after I found him playing with himself while I was sleeping beside him.

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“Another time I found him doing it in the toilet, then in the kitchen. I would find sperm on the bed sheet even when we hadn’t met at night.

“One day, I found him using Vaseline and releasing on a towel,” she explained.

The first time I caught him, I slapped him.

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“He spends all his time on the phone. We never talk.

“When he enters the bedroom, all he does is watching blue movies. There is no time to discuss anything,” she said.

Anna further told the court that her husband was a drunkard who drank recklessly every day and would miss work for three to four months at a time.

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Despite Anna informing the magistrate, Harriet Mulenga, that she still wanted to continue with their marriage, the court granted the couple a divorce, stating that the wife had no respect for her husband.

After listening to an audio recording in which Anna was heard insulting Cletus, Mulenga ruled that the wife was the bigger problem.

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There is no respect in this marriage. No matter what, you cannot cooperate.

“We have heard of marriages where women beat men. If you respected him, he would not have resorted to masturbation.

“It was also wrong of you to slap your husband.

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“There is no way you can tell your husband that he has a small manhood and expect him to have confidence with you.

“That is why he plays with himself, he has lost confidence.

“Respect is cardinal in marriage. How many times will you get married?” asked Mulenga.

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The magistrate ordered Cletus to pay K500 monthly maintenance for the couple’s one-year-seven-month-old child.

She also ordered that household goods be shared equally and ruled that no compensation be paid to either party.

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Edo Police Arrest Two Suspected Cultists

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The Edo State Police Command on Wednesday said two suspected cultists were arrested in Ohonre community, off Adolor College Road, Benin.

This was disclosed in a statement by the command Public Relations Officer, Eno Ikoedem, and made available to newsmen electrically.

Ikoedem said the arrest was possible due to operatives response to a distress report concerning the movement and gathering of some suspected cult members within the community.

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The statement reads: “The Edo State Police Command has recorded another operational breakthrough following the swift disruption of a suspected cultists’ gathering in Ohonre Community, off Adolor College Road, Benin City.

“On 21st May, 2026, at about 19:00hrs, operatives attached to Ugbowo Division who were on surveillance patrol responded to a distress report concerning the movement and gathering of some suspected cult members within the community.

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“Acting promptly on the information, the police team mobilized to the location. On sighting the operatives, the suspects fled in an attempt to evade arrest. The operatives immediately gave them a hot chase, leading to the arrest of two suspects identified as Victor Peter ‘M’, 21 years and Iyemoma Ogbewe ‘M’, 35 years.

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“A search conducted on the suspects led to the recovery of one cut-to-size gun believed to have been in their possession for unlawful purposes.

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“Upon investigation, the suspects confessed to being members of the notorious Maphite cult group. Efforts are ongoing to identify and apprehend other fleeing gang members.”

She said the Commissioner of Police, Monday Agbonika, commended the swift response of the operatives and reiterated the Command’s resolve to deny criminal elements any opportunity within Edo State.

He further urged residents to continue providing timely and credible information to the Police, assuring that all reports would receive prompt attention.

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Troops Eliminate Two Terrorists, Foil Pipeline Attack

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The Nigerian Army says troops have, in the last 24 hours, eliminated two terrorists, rescued four kidnapped victims and foiled pipeline attacks in a series of coordinated military operations across Taraba, Kogi and Rivers.

This is contained in operational updates issued to reporters on Tuesday in Abuja.

According to the reports, troops of 93 Battalion deployed at Akate in the Donga Local Government Area of Taraba engaged suspected terrorists in a forested area, killing two of them.

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According to the report, items recovered from the scene include an AK-47 rifle, ammunition, magazines, mobile phones and other personal effects.

In Kogi, it said the troops of 21 Battalion, in collaboration with vigilantes, rescued four kidnapped passengers along the Anyigba–Itobe road in Ofu Local Government Area.

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It added that the victims were reportedly abandoned by their captors while attempting to cross a seasonal stream due to sustained pressure from advancing troops.

According to the military, efforts are ongoing to rescue other victims still in captivity.

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The report said that troops of 12 Brigade successfully repelled an ambush along Kabba–Okene road while withdrawing from an earlier operation, forcing the assailants to flee with gunshot wounds.

Meanwhile, in Rivers, troops of 5 Battalion acting on credible intelligence, foiled an attempt by suspected vandals to detonate a crude oil pipeline in Ahoada West Local Government Area.

“The swift response of the troops disrupted the operation before it could be executed, with the suspects fleeing the scene,” it said.

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Police Arrest Private Chef Over Alleged N150m Theft, Drugging Of Employer, Burglary

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The Nigeria Police Force has arrested a chef, John Cosmos Govi, over his alleged involvement in a burglary operation at a residence in Abuja, where luxury items and valuables worth about N150 million were reportedly stolen.

The arrest was announced on Monday, May 25, 2026, by the Force Public Relations Officer, DCP Anthony Placid, who said the suspect was apprehended by operatives of the Force Intelligence Department Intelligence Response Team (FID-IRT) after investigations into allegations of criminal conspiracy, housebreaking, theft, malicious damage and administering harmful substances.

According to police findings, Govi, who allegedly gained employment as a chef at the residence, was said to have studied the movement of occupants, internal routine and security setup before allegedly carrying out the operation on April 23, 2026.

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Investigators said he reportedly worked with two accomplices identified as Peter and Moses, who are currently on the run.

Police alleged that food prepared in the house was laced with a suspected sedative substance to weaken the occupants and security personnel.

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After they reportedly became unconscious, the suspects allegedly broke into the property, damaged CCTV installations and stole 20 luxury wristwatches valued at about N150 million, alongside other valuables.

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Speaking on the development, DCP Anthony Placid said the suspect was intercepted around the Gwagwalada axis of the Federal Capital Territory while attempting to flee to Lagos. He added that an iPhone 17 Pro Max, believed to belong to the victim, and a suspected chemical substance were recovered.

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We remain committed to dismantling organised criminal networks and ensuring that all fleeing accomplices are brought to justice,” Placid said.

Police said efforts are ongoing to arrest the fleeing suspects and conclude investigations into the case.

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