By Israel Adebiyi

I recently visited my family in Lagos, and as always, my aged father took time to tutor me on the significance of my name — Adeniran (the crown has lineage). He reminded me of our heritage and where our royalty stems from. His weak voice, now distorted by the frequent grinding of his teeth, carried a burden of weight and seriousness.

“You are royal,” he declared firmly, “and you cannot afford to mess around, nor allow anyone to mess with you. Omo Aláwó ni ẹ́, Aláwó yàdé, Aláwó jọbí etí Ẹ̀dẹ.”

The lesson was clear: royalty is serious business and cannot be trivialised. Yet, barely two weeks after, some royal fathers seemed not to have received this same memo from the source where they ought to have. Instead, they are on national tabloids, dragging themselves before the public.

As you read this piece, kindly note this disclaimer: as the young ones would say when they attempt a proverb in the midst of elders, t’otó̀ ń ṣe bí owe, òun kì í ṣe owe. I am but a child before the custodians of wisdom. I dare not assume the place of counsel before monarchs who are living reservoirs of knowledge. My words are but whispers in the presence of gods—unworthy to instruct those who hold the staff of tradition and the heritage of our people.

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In Yoruba history, the crown has never been a mere ornament. It is a living symbol, an emblem of continuity, and a spiritual covenant between a people and their deities. When a Yoruba monarch steps out in full regalia, he does not walk as an individual but as the custodian of centuries-old heritage, the voice of the ancestors, and the embodiment of the divine on earth. That is why kingship in Yorubaland is not just political; it is metaphysical, transcending ordinary governance to embody the very soul of the people. As the Yoruba say, “Oba kii ku, oba wà bí o ti wà” (a king never dies, he only transforms in existence).

Take the story of the late Obafemi Awolowo’s collaboration with Yoruba monarchs in the Western Region. While Awolowo carried the vision of modern governance, it was the blessings, counsel, and mobilization of traditional rulers that anchored his reforms in education, health, and infrastructure. The people followed Awolowo not just because he was brilliant, but because their kings gave legitimacy to his vision. This sacred synergy between traditional authority and modern governance remains one of the strongest demonstrations of how monarchs elevate their people.

Similarly, the Alaafin of Oyo has historically stood as the political rallying point of the Yoruba, the custodian of the Oyo Empire’s legacy, and the symbol of unity in times of turmoil. The Ooni of Ife, on the other hand, carries the spiritual weight of being the custodian of Ile-Ife, the cradle of the Yoruba race. Both stools are not just thrones — they are altars upon which the destiny of the Yoruba people rests. To sit upon them is to step into a covenant of restraint, wisdom, and eternal dignity.

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This is why the current supremacy clash between the Alaafin of Oyo and the Ooni of Ife is deeply unsettling. It is not about whether one monarch is right or the other is wrong. It is about what these revered stools represent. The Yoruba say “Kabiyesi, Alase Igbakeji Orisa” — unquestionable ruler, second only to the gods. When such figures are seen washing their royal linens in the market square of public opinion, it is not they alone who are diminished; the collective pride of the Yoruba nation is bruised. When elephants fight, the grass suffers; when royal fathers lock horns in public, the moral fibre of the society they lead trembles.

History teaches us that when monarchs elevate their stools, their people rise with them. When they descend into the mud of ego battles, the people’s heritage suffers ridicule. The crown does not belong to a man; it belongs to the race he represents. The Ooni’s beaded crown and the Alaafin’s royal stool are not private property but sacred trusts passed from generation to generation. To trivialize them in the public square is to weaken the very foundation of Yoruba identity. To watch monarchs wash their royal linens in public is to cheapen the value of the stools their forebears protected with blood and sacrifice. As the proverb says, “Bi omode ba subu, a wo iwaju; bi agbalagba ba subu, a wo ehin” (when a child falls, he looks forward; when an elder falls, people look back to trace the cause).

The contention over titles may be legitimate within royal circles, but the manner in which such disagreements are ventilated should never erode the dignity of the thrones. The Yoruba society thrives on the belief that the king is the rallying point of cohesion. When kings disagree privately and resolve silently, the society moves on in harmony. But when kings take disputes to the marketplace or national dailies, they expose themselves to ridicule and diminish the respect the people instinctively owe them. “Oba tí kò lè so ilé rẹ̀ di mímọ́, báwo ló ṣe máa so ìlú di mímọ́?” (A king who cannot keep his household in order, how will he put his community in order?).

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The point, therefore, is not to judge. It is to remind. The Yoruba monarch is not an ordinary mortal. He is the bridge between the seen and the unseen, the living and the ancestors, the deities and their people. If he falters in dignity, the people’s reverence falters too. This is why Yoruba monarchs must rise above mortal pettiness. They must embody the restraint of Orunmila, the wisdom of Oduduwa, and the dignity of their forebears who understood that true power is exercised in silence and majesty, not in public altercation. And as another Yoruba proverb warns, “Àgùntàn tó bá dá ilé olúwa rẹ̀ rú, kí lón jẹ́ pé ó máa fi ara ẹ̀ jẹun” (a sheep that destroys its master’s house will eventually feed on its own flesh).

The Yoruba nation watches. The world watches. And as history has always shown, the monarch who elevates his stool elevates his people.