…She’s free to go —Husband

An Area Court in Centre-Igboro, Ilorin, Kwara State, has dissolved the Islamic marriage between a woman, one Mrs Mujidat Adepoju and her husband, Mr AbdulRasheed Ibrahim, on the account of domestic violence and infidelity.

Delivering judgment, the presiding judge, Mr Idris Etsu, held that since the respondent agreed to the dissolution of their marriage, there was therefore no need to delay proceedings.

Etsu, consequently, dissolved their union, and ordered that the petitioner observe three months iddah (waiting) period before remarrying.

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According to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), the petitioner had earlier told the court that she was no longer interested in her marriage to her husband, following repeated violence, frequent threat of divorce, neglect, and infidelity.

“My husband always beat me, insists that I leave his house whenever he is angry and sometimes travel for months without coming back home.

“He is randy and already has three children from three other women,” she said.

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Mudijat stated that their marriage is blessed with five children, adding that three of them are married.

She prayed that the other two children, aged 18 years old and eight years old, be left with their father, so that there would be no reason for the respondent to visit her.

Meanwhile, in his response to the petitioner’s claim, the respondent assented to t divorce.

“She used to say that I like manipulating words. So, I am not saying anything. If she wants to go, she can go,” he said.

Grade A Customary Court sitting at Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, has heard the testimony of a woman, Cordellia, who brought a divorce suit against her husband, Friday, whom she alleged was irresponsible, showed her no love, and was in the habit of beating her.

Cordellia stated that Friday stopped loving her after he took a second wife and made her life miserable.

She further said that he took to beating her, adding that he did not desist from beating her even when she was pregnant.

The plaintiff explained that the defendant later took to threatening her with a machete and a gun, which spurred her decision to move out of his house before he made his threat real.

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Cordellia pleaded for their children’s custody.

She also prayed the court to mandate her husband to be responsible for their children’s upkeep, paying attention to their feeding, education and health care.

She further requested an order restraining him from threatening and interfering with her private life.

Friday refused to make an appearance in court despite being served court summonses.

Cordellia in her evidence said, “My husband pampered and showered love on me when we were dating, but he changed after we got married.

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“We had an introduction ceremony and I moved in with him. He did not pay my bride price.

“My husband and I had a smooth relationship and our marriage was peaceful, but these changed after he married a second wife.

“He stopped loving me and shifted all his attention to his new wife.

“My husband not only neglected me, but he also stopped carrying out his responsibilities towards me and our children.

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“Things got worse when he started beating me. He did not stop beating me even when I was pregnant.

“He turned me into a laughing stock in the presence of his new wife.

“He treated me with scorn and the more I complained of his maltreatment of me, the worse he became.

“I experienced the worst of my husband’s inhuman nature when he started threatening me with machete and gun.

“I lived in fear day and night because he could make his threat real.

“I later decided to move out of his house.

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“I left with our children but he later took them away from me.

“He took our children to his village where no care has been given them.

“I pray the court to end our marriage and grant me custody of our children.

“I further plead that the court should order him to take up the responsibility of their upkeep, especially their feeding, education and heathcare.

“I, in addition request an order restraining him from threatening and interfering with my private life style.”

The president of the court, Mrs S.M. Akintayo adjourned the case.

…She stopped having s3x with me, said she didn’t want to age —Husband

A woman, Oluwabunmi, has prayed Grade A Customary Court, sitting at Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, to end her marriage with to her husband, Mayowa, saying she is no longer interested in her union to her husband on the accounts that he is irresponsible and is solely dependent on her.

Oluwabunmi explained that Mayowa became intolerant after she got a good job and refused that she had peace of mind.

She stated that her husband sought every opportunity to fight and sometimes slapped her in the presence of their children.

According to the plaintiff, the defendant always accused her of infidelity and would lock her out of the house.

She added that he was diabolic and was in the practice of taking her pictures to herbalists and fake prophets with the purpose of afflicting her.

Oluwabunmi further said that she refused him sex because he showed her no love and affection.

The plaintiff pleaded for the custody of their children, whom she said their upkeep had always been her responsibility.

Mayowa agreed that their wedlock be dissolved.

He stated that his wife constantly denied him s3x because, according to her, she would age if she had regular s3x.

Mayowa accused Oluwabunmi of lying and living a deceitful lifestyle.

The defendant said that the plaintiff always lied to him that she was attending vigils, not knowing that she was spending nights with her lovers.

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He added that she was in the habit of returning home late from work, which was not pleasing to him.

Mayowa acceded to Oluwabunmi having custody of their children but requested to have unrestricted access to them, especially during the holidays.

Oluwabunmi, in her testimony, said, “I accepted my husband’s marriage proposal because I believed he had prospects, but the reverse was the case after we got married.

“We had a quiet wedding, and he paid my bride price, but this was returned to him.

“Our marriage was beautiful and our home was a haven, but these changed after I got a good job.

“My husband suddenly changed.

“He started feeling insecure and took to complaining and seeking every opportunity to fight me.

“He stopped carrying out his duties in the home and passed the bulk of his responsibilities to me.

“I feed and cloth our children, and also saw to their education.

“My husband started suspecting my movements.

“I took permission from him to attend a wedding, but on returning, he started complaining that I spent too much time outside the home.

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“He refused that I explain myself.

“We ended up arguing, and he slapped me.

“I stopped having s3x with him after this because it was obvious he no longer loved me.

“My husband stopped trusting me and started accusing me of immorality.

“He always believed I was with other men any time I was out of the house.

“He would accuse me of returning home late, beat me, and throw me out, not minding the time.

“He is also fetish.

“My husband took my pictures to herbalists and false prophets in order to afflict me.

“He finally sent me packing.

“I left with our children because he never contributed towards their upkeep.

“He has not given our children any money since we moved out.

“I pray this honourable court to end our relationship and grant me custody of our children.

“I further entreat the court to rule that my husband be responsible for their upkeep, feeding, education and health care.”

Mayowa in his response said: “I agree that our marriage be dissolved.

“My wife stopped having sex with me because, according to her, she does not want to age fast.

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“She denied me s3x but was sleeping with other men.

“My wife took to coming home late.

“She would sometimes lie that she was attending a vigil but would be at her lover’s place throughout the night.

“It was one of her friends who told me she was never at any of the vigils held in the church.

“I sent her packing because she was no longer the woman I fell in love with and got married to.

“I do not trust her anymore. She is now a liar and a whore.

“She can have our children, while I will be responsible for their upkeep.

“I pray the court to grant me adequate access to them, especially during their holidays.”

The court president, Mrs S.M. Akintayo, adjourned the case for judgment.