Grade A Customary Court, Court 2, sitting in Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, has listened to a divorce suit brought before it by a man, Jelili, against his wife, Kudirat, whom he accused of irresponsibility, lack of love, constant fight, public embarrassment and threat to life.
Jelili said before the court that Kudirat never showed him love and care while she also shirked her responsibilities as a wife in the home.
The plaintiff stated that the defendant had no regard for him and was in the habit of treating his counsel and orders with disdain.
According to the plaintiff, these always led to their being at loggerhead almost all the time.
Jelili further told the court that Kudirat not only fought him but was in the habit of slapping him any time they had a misunderstanding.
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He further said that his wife always locked him up in the room any time they fought and would refused that he went about his business for the day.
According to the plaintiff, any time he escaped, the defendant would come after him and fight him in the public, thereby embarrassing him.
Jelili stated that he had suffered much pain and ridicule in the hands of his wife and therefore prayed that their union be dissolved.
He, therefore, sought an order of the court restraining his wife from coming to his home and work place to fight him.
The plaintiff further entreated the court for their children’s custody.
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According to him, his wife had constantly failed in her responsibilities towards them.
Kudirat refuted all the charges brought against her.
She also refused that her husband had custody of their children.
Jelili, in his evidence, said: “My wife and I met in 2013, and we started living together as husband and wife shortly after this.
“We held no marriage ceremony, and I did not pay her bride.
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“I failed to carry out these because her parents were not in support of our relationship.
“They therefore did not give their consent to our marriage.
“I regret every day that I went into marriage with my wife.
“Our union has brought humiliation and pain.
“My wife constantly abandoned her duties in the home.
“She never cared for me and our children and showed no interest in our welfare.
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“What we ate, wore, or did were never of interest to her.
“Kudirat had no regard for me and treated me with scorn.
“She placed no value on my words and always disregarded my counsel while she went against my orders.
“My wife always ensured our discussions ended in argument and then a fight.
“My lord, my wife did not stop at only fighting me, but would also slap me.
“Kudirat would slap me and lock me up in the room, thereby refusing that I went to work or do some other things.
“On some occasions that I made my way out of the room, she would run after me and fight me in the public, thus ridiculing me.
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“My wife not only fought me at home and in the public, but she also came to my workplace to fight and slap me.
“My lord, my wife’s misbehaviour had brought me constant shame.
“I pray to be permanently disengaged from her.
“I also sought an order restricting her from coming to my house and office to harass, threaten and fight me.
“I further plead for our children’s custody because she has never been a good mother unto them.”
The court president, Mrs O.E Owoseni, adjourned the case for further hearing.
(TRIBUNE)